Twin Flame Relationships
Twin
Flames have also been referred to as original light,
energy doubles, twin rays, twin hearts, divine complements,
and twin souls. For the purpose of this article, though,
I will refer to the twin flame and twin flame relationship.
The twin flame relationship is one of
the highest forms of relationship there is to manifest
at this time. It can also be the most challenging as our
twin flame is the mate of our being that is our authentic
self as Soul. The twin flame relationship operates from
the "Light of Oneness" which encompasses what is perceived
as both good and bad shadow aspects of who we are. This
relationship offers the biggest arena for our creative
expression to manifest if we are able to receive it.
Our twin flame will reflect this hidden
shadow element to us more closely showing us where we
are off center. If we are off center our twin flame will
also be off center in the same area but may not consciously
know it. How much the twin flames have integrated their
"Soul Light design" with their physical being
will determine how long they will be able to maintain
a relationship with each other in the same physical environment.
There is much that goes on within more hidden levels of
relationships that can impact this relationship in the
physical realm as well.
We are all souls that step down a portion
of our energy into a human form for a unique purpose.
In the case of twin flames they have the same electronic
blueprint that is very much linked with their Soul's purpose.
It is like the twin flames are viewing the same vision
for manifestation and integrating it, one from the perspective
of woman and one from the perspective of man.
Each has the complementary piece for
what the other requires for healing any wounds they may
have as well as any work they do in the world. Because
they have the same electronic blueprint any process they
go through is usually synchronistic whether they are in
the same physical environment or across the planet never
having physically met before.
When twin flames integrate more of their
Soul light design within their physical being, they are
like simultaneous explosions of light impacting the rest
of the planet as the electromagnetic energy generated
from their hearts operates within a unified field.
Exposed in the throes of love's hurricane
this love radiates through many dimensions as they are
so aligned that they do relationship differently than
most others do. They communicate and work together on
many layers of consciousness. As Souls, traversing many
dimensions as complements, they are feeding the relationship
with each other all the time. They dont need to physically
be together in the same environment in order to have impact
on each other. They don't even have to know who each other
for this to occur for the communication occurs at a Soul
level.
This is a relationship that "lands" in
divine timing. When twin flames meet, having already made
the connection with their soul, if they are actively integrating
their purpose, there is a recognition that goes beyond
language and personality. This is because this is a relationship
that does not have to do romance first in order to get
to true love.
Twin Flame love is ignited as a sacred
marriage between their soul and personality. When they
come more into balance with this sacred marriage within
themselves they bring a depth of healing and awareness
that is quite profound in the impact it has on humanity
through many dimensions of space time.
Stripped of their ego defences and karmic
patterning any pretending falls away as there fails to
be anything that can be hidden in this relationship. They
naturally facilitate wholeness. They are whole unto themselves.
In that wholeness they are like springboards for each
other bringing forward theirs gifts to humanity.
At the highest levels in service this
fails to be a relationship where one or the other will
dominate in the relationship. Each is a leader in their
own right having established a complementary foundation
throughout their life for the work they do in the world.
When twin flames ignite their passion together they are
a very magnetic force of light on the planet. They become
each other's greatest champions in service to each other
and everyone that comes into contact with them. When people
think of having the ultimate soulmate relationship, the
Twin Flame relationship is the one they are actually referring
to.
In the past, conscious twin flame relationships
have been rare. We are now in the times though, where
the doors are opened for twin flame relationships to manifest
more consciously on a much larger scale.
The Twin Flames are leaders in evolving
the consciousness in multi-dimensional relationships on
the planet. This divine alliance is awakening inner technologies
that facilitate more conscious communication between them,
even from a distance. Conscious telepathic communication
between twin flames is awakening in the twin flame future
now. The alignment within the patterns of their Soul Light
Design when integrated as a man and a woman on the earth
sends ripples across the planet touching all life on earth
through all directions of space time.
Twin
Flame Recognition
Some
people will say that the chances of meeting your twin
flame are close to nonexistent because your twin flame
is just a spirit but not in physical embodiment. Although
twin flame relationships are rare, there are actually
many twin flames that are incarnated at the same time.
Twin
flame recognition may occur in the dreamtime prior to
physically meeting or may remain on a spirit level without
ever manifesting physically. This all depends on the level
of connection we have with our Soul's vision and purpose.
When one is committed to going the distance, to do whatever
it takes to manifest the intent of their Soul for this
lifetime they are actually committing themselves to a
twin flame relationship that is developed within them
and reflected in the outer reality every step of the way.
A
twin flame relationship is something that we get as a
marriage within ourself first before we are fully able
to receive it in the physical realm aligned with our Soul's
vision. If you have spiritual integrity you may recognize
your twin flame when you meet them and have to say no
to relationship with them in order to honour your own
process in life. As with any relationship the twin flame
relationship is a thing unto itself.
If
one is aware of their Soul's purpose one can see how far
along they are on the path of being able to receive this
dynamic relationship. As one honours their own path in
life they are also honouring the path of their twin flame.
Very often there is communication on inner levels that
are indicators of whether it is right timing or not.
At
the highest levels in manifestation when this relationship
comes forward it is usually to fulfill a mission that
serves humanity in some way. There may be things that
both twins need to go through on their own in order to
be able to receive each other physically in order to manifest
that mission. Remember that the twin flame relationship
is happening on many dimensions all the time. This relationship
touches down physically in divine timing.
There
are many kindred souls that we may meet, some that are
part of our soul group that we may feel a strong connection
or attraction to. We only have one Twin Flame, though.
We will attract to us wherever we are coming from in our
awareness of who we know ourselves to be. If we are operating
from our ego personality we will also attract to us the
same reflection in relationship. Many souls may have similar
characteristics to our twin flame but a twin flame is
an exact match to us so the more we are in relationship
with ourself the more we will recognize a twin flame.
Basically the more we are married to our soul the more
we will be able to have the highest level of relationship
in service with our twin flame.
As
we wake up spiritually we integrate more of our talents
and abilities that have been dormant within us. These
are carry overs from other lifetimes. The feminine principle
of life which is the container for the invisible blueprint
of light becomes married with the male principle which
determines the outer form.
As
we begin to access and embody more of our unique blueprint
we birth the twin flame relationship within us while discovering
right action to take in the outer reality. The twin flame
energy then becomes more magnetic in the outer physical
reality bringing to awareness more readily, the ability
to recognize our twin flame when we meet ours.
More
conscious communication between twin flames is awakened
because twin flames have the same soul energy which encompasses
more than this lifetime and transmutes more than this
lifetime experience. As we take this next step in evolution
our personality comes into cooperation with our Soul.
Our
Soul transmutes that fear patterning within our body,
mind and feelings aligning our chakra system and many
layers of consciousness into a cohesive whole. Patterns
in relationship from other lifetimes are reconfigured.
Our brain changes as we start to use more of it. We begin
to communicate from a different concept of time as we
operate from all of who we are that traverses a multitude
of dimensions.
A
key point in recognizing a twin flame, if you desire to
have this highly evolved relationship manifest physically
in your world, is to look at the twin flame history. A
twin flame will match you in areas of study that they
have taken in order to resolve their life challenges and
evolve their consciousness about who they are.
Ask
your spiritual guides. They will be able to assist you
in recognizing a match you're your consciousness because
they are able to see the big picture for your life. They
are here to assist you in making the appropriate connections
for you to fulfill your purpose. Those people, places
and events will be more magnetic and radiant to you that
are aligned with you. Remember the recognition comes from
your heart and the feeling side of your nature not from
whatever is on a list of wants.
There
will be many interests that are the same because the issues
that twin flames have are the same, coming from the opposite
perspective. This is what makes our twin flame so magnetic
to us. It is like they are another version of who we are
expressing as the opposite sex. In order to receive a
twin flame relationship physically you must be able to
receive who you are; that means the good, the bad and
the ugly. You must be able to receive the inner guidance
for your own life because this is not a relationship that
will last if it becomes enmeshed.
This
can be the ultimate playmate relationship if you are taking
care of integrating your purpose in life. When we are
doing this we can live without attachment. It is only
when we live without attachment that we are free to receive
and evolve relationships to deeper levels of intimacy.
When we are able to do this our relationships impact the
rest of humanity naturally. The twin flame relationship
must be integrated within us for spiritual integrity is
of utmost importance in order to impact the collective
relationship between man and woman on the planet.
Manifesting
Twin Flame Relationship
The
twin flame relationship is a thing unto itself that creates
an alignment of mind, body, feelings and soul when we
seek to marry our Spiritual Light body with our physical
being. We have physical manifestation when desired by
those higher aspects of self in accordance with a divine
plan that serves the greater whole of humanity and earth.
We have at this stage transformed a split in consciousness
between our soul and human self.
There
are universal forces of light that support this relationship
manifesting within us and in our outer physical world.
Twin Flames are movers and shakers in the world in cocreation
with these forces of light. As each is developing their
thing that serves in the world they have the attention
and support of those twin flames that have ascended in
consciousness before them.
In
order to manifest this level of relationship you have
to become it. Becoming it means allowing for new information
to come through from higher dimensions of self becoming
clear channels of the Light of Oneness. As we bring the
twin flame relationship into practice in our world we
bring the expansiveness of our heart flame into a marriage
with our higher mind. We send ripples of Divine Love and
the Light of Oneness throughout the planet through many
dimensions. This is even more impacting if we have our
physical twin flame in conscious cocreation with us.
The
manifestation of this physical relationship integrates
a new world aligned with changes the earth is also going
through. As above so below, in balance left and right,
before us and behind us dissolving concepts of time. This
relationship is timeless as these Souls work with sun
and moon cycles through many dimensions. This creator
energy merges twin hearts in Oneness.
Manifesting
this relationship takes inner and outer discipline to
maintain spiritual integrity as this relationship is created
by people walking the path of mastery on earth. This creates
H.I.M. (Higher Intelligence
Manifesting) in H.E.R.
(Humans Evolving Relationships)
in service on this planet.
If
you want to manifest this relationship ask and you shall
receive the way to receive this divinely guided relationship.
Call it forward and the process will begin. Be willing
to suurender, change and accellerate your evolutionary
path in life. Settle for nothing less than Beauty,
Evolution, Soul, and
Truth in your life.
The
False Twin Flame
Basically
a false twin flame is someone that has a few similar traits
to a real twin flame but has yet to make the connection
with their own soul and purpose. A false twin lacks their
own inner connection with their Soul and higher purpose
and will plug into the foundation an intimate partner
has already established in their life.
They
will become absorbed into their partner's energy field
unconsciously molding themselves into what is required
to hold onto their partner. Take away the partner and
the person would probably be doing something entirely
different according to whoever they are in physical relationship
with.
The
foundation we lay in the world is linked with our purpose.
This comes from everything we go through in order to find
meaning and a sense of self when asking the questions:
Who Am I and why am I here? When we establish the link
with our Soul's purpose any difficulties we have in expressing
what is in our hearts becomes the juice to move us forward
in manifesting that big vision in our world. This builds
the strength, courage and trust within us instead of through
a partner or organization.
Empowered
Twin Flames are complements with this, consistently working
at higher levels of reality in order to bring forward
a mission that serves humanity. They do not need to hook
into each other as they operate from oneness with the
same soul energy being fed to them by their connections
with their Souls. This higher level relationship is usually
unconscious to the human selves of the twin flames until
Soul fusion with the physical beings takes place.
With
the advent of the Ascension process, now more accellerated
on the planet, they become more magnetic and aware of
each other in the physical world whether they are together
in the same physical environment or not. The more
conscious the twin flame relationship becomes with this
integration the more apparent the antics of a false twin's
survival instincts also become.
Depending
on how disconnected they are with their own Soul’s
purpose, a false twin can become quite violent psychically
and energetically becoming a spiritual oppressor while
at the same time wearing a mask of light in the outer
world. The false twin’s life can be developed at
the expense of a real twin flame’s life force depending
on how strong and awake the real twin flame is.
They
will psychically piggyback the same sex twin flame drawing
the juice from them if the intent is to go forward with
a physical endeavor that serves the world. To do so they
have to hook into the vision chakras, crown chakra, and
soul star of a real twin flame as they lack that development
for themselves. They will end up parroting the voice and
actions of a real twin flame because they have yet to
establish their own voice in the world.
This
is because a false twin’s safety, security and trust
have come through external sources rather than having
established their own direct connection with who they
are spiritually. Fear of losing their outer source
of safety and security is the base of where they operate
from. What they are really losing is their ego based identity
that comes from fitting into a role for somebody.
A
false twin does not have the complementary foundation
built from transmuting fear to love in their life that
the twin flames have and can be quite threatened by a
real twin flame. In order to keep up to the real twins
they have to fast track their awareness by becoming psychic
vampires in order to maintain a relationship with their
partner.
The
energy field of a false twin and intimate partner becomes
quite clouded. The cloudiness occurs because a false twin
hooks into a higher self energy that isn’t their
own. The information a false twin draws on from a real
twin flame has to go through the fear patterning within
their body, mind and emotions which lacks the complementary
foundation a real twin has already established.
A
false twin flame in relationship will actually cradle
you to sleep because they live from a false identity drawing
energy from others. Their own blueprint fails to be grounded
because they have failed to make the vertical connection
through their Higher Self. They live strictly through
their horizontal contacts in their physical reality.
A
false twin flame's partner will be split in consciousness
having a relationship with somebody who isn't fully there
in the physical environment because part of a false twin's
focus is on drawing energy from the real twin. The energy
in relationship with a false twin dwindles because a false
twin has failed in developing the relationship with who
they are spiritually.
A
false twin flame then creates possessive love relationship
on more hidden levels of reality the more magnetic the
real twin flame relationship becomes. This stops the flow
of evolution as a false twin perpetuates a false identity
in the world that is emotionally survival based rather
than soul based.
But
we are full swing into the ascension process as we integrate
our soul energy. Just as a real twin flame is more noticed
from a distance a false twin flame's hidden energy dynamics
are revealed as well. This means the tools to transform
any karmic patterning between a false twin and the twin
flames are revealed so that harmful patterns that impact
the physical vehicles cease doing so.
As
a real twin flame does the inner work to heal enmeshed
energies a false twin may try to amplify the energetic
force to try to maintain the energy draw from a real twin
flame. Fortunately for a false twin though, the vertical
channel connecting our higher energies with our physical
being get’s strengthened and any attachments to
the life stream of the real twin flames gets sloughed
off.
This
turns on the lights so to speak within our physical body
awakening abilities like telepathic communication, clairaudience,
clairvoyance etc., as well as karmic patterns from other
dimensions of time. This presents an opportunity for a
false twin and the twin flames to handle more hidden aspects
of their shadow selves that have previously been denied.
A
false twin can be more impacted because they lack the
awareness of their purpose that the twin flames have.
Their focus has come from hooking up with a physical partner
and their endeavours rather than having the spiritual
integrity of following their own life’s work.
The
body will always reflect this because it is like trying
to put a 90 watt bulb into a 40 watt sockett. The energetic
blueprint is unable to be grounded into the earth through
a false twin flame. They lack the body to ground the energy
for the twin flames mission to humanity because they lack
the inner connection to the higher forces of light aligned
with the blue print for the twin flame relationship in
service on earth.
The
frequencies fail to match. They have to draw on the creation
energy already established by the twin flames. This becomes
what some might call a quantum entanglement. The further
the twin flames go in integrating these Ascension energies
physically the more energetically violent a false twin
becomes trying to hold onto their purely physical relationship.
Blocking
the real twin flame relationship which starts within us
will ultimately will be unsuccessful because the twin
flame relationships operate from a higher vibration than
a false twin does. They are not just helpers to each other
in relationship they are also true co creators with the
light frequencies on the planet. This is a relationship
that will be magnetic to those who are awakening spirit
in their relationships.
What
is false and what is real is not always defined by outer
actions. If we are creating the twin flame relationship
within us we are aligning our field with our Soul’s
blueprint which is love based.
A
false twin flame will be quite threatened by a real twin
flame because a real twin flame is a creative match for
their partner. They will distort the twin flames mission
to humanity because they lack the depth of a real twin
flame.
They
will get raised slightly by the higher vibration of the
twin flame relationship for awhile but they will begin
to try to block it the more the twin flames anchor their
blueprint with their physical being.
They
energetically try to clamp down on that which they perceive
as a threat to their material world because they will
experience physical changes as the blueprints of the twin
flames are physically integrated. A false twin’s
lack of alignment on hidden levels will be exposed more
because they create possessive love relationship on what
have been more hidden levels of reality in the past.
In
close to ending their lifetimes on earth twin flames meet
in order to be in service in the world. This happens in
divine timing as they go through their ascension process.
We
all have the opportunity to choose of course. Having love
based impact on the world can only come from aligning
with our higher selves. This is the decision we must make.
Will we live from our higher self fulfilling our Soul’s
purpose or will we pursue ego gratification?
The
Authentic Twin flame relationship does what love asks
and strips the masks bringing to light higher truths aligned
with the Divine Plan on earth. In authentic service we
become the light while transmuting the shadow.
If
you want to distinguish between a real twin flame and
a false one you must look beneath the surface of your
physical reality. This is where real mastery comes to
the forefront of our consciousness to maintain the integrity
of our Soul's vision.
Twin Flame
Challenges
Divine
Timing - I think one of the greatest challenges
with Twin Flames comes if they meet and it isn't yet the
right timing for them to be in an outer physical relationship.
Depending on how awake each twin flame is this may have
already been communicated on an inner level. Whichever
twin is more awake must have the patience and honour their
own and their twin flame’s life process.
This level of relationship physically manifests in divine
timing if the intent is to fulfill their purpose. Twin
Flames usually come together in service to humanity in
their near to last lifetimes on earth.
Lack
of Twin Flame Recognition can be challenging.
This occurs if the relationship is polarized with the
male and female principles. One twin may be more spirit
directed in their life, operating more from the feminine
principle. To many people the person that is more connected
to the feminine principle which is more inner directed
looks like they aren’t doing anything. This fails
to be the case. They tend to be more process oriented
acting on their feelings and inner knowing of their blueprint
to develop their own systems in life rather than by using
already established ones. They take action when it feels
right aligned with their inner guidance.
Their
manifestation in the outer physical reality may be a little
slower depending on what they have to deal with on those
inner levels. This is particularly so for women that
are bringing forward the higher consciousness of woman
rather than routing themselves through the more 3D patriarchal
consciousness that has been running the systems on the
planet for some time.
The
other twin may be more routed through the male principle
and very outer directed in their approach to life taking
less time for doing the inner work which integrates the
feminine principle containing the divine blueprint. If
either have a certain type or image that their ego personality
has in mind for a mate then they will deflect a real twin
and create a watered down version of the relationship
with someone else while unconsciously communicating with
their twin spiritually.
The
Twin Flame Relationship will remain unconscious until
more of the Soul energy is fused with the Physical Being
and the heart wounding has begun to be healed.
If
your twin flame says that you are not their "type"
then give them the freedom to choose. Only in freedom
do you open a pathway for this higher form of relationship
to manifest in divine timing. Remember that everything
you do to move forward in service in your life directly
impacts your twin flame anyway.
Freedom
to Evolve - The biggest challenge I see
with the twin flame relationship linked in purpose is
in giving each other the space to embody that purpose
as a man and as a woman. This is true in all relationships
yet it is even more amplified in a twin flame relationship
because twin flames share the same vision.
Man
and woman are wired differently so integrating our soul’s
purpose through our mental, emotional, physical and spiritual
bodies is going to be very different.
When
we take responsibility for ourselves we create balance
in our relationship. This means that woman is doing the
work of transforming her heart wounding and taking responsibility
for the physically active male principle in her life rather
than handing that over to a partner to do it for her.
This
also means that man is doing the work of transforming
his heart wounding and taking responsibility for the feminine
principle which is about connecting more with the inner
vision and feeling body rather than handing that over
to his partner. Both will be evolving the consciousness
of man and woman as they align with their Divine Blueprints.
The
biggest mistake we make is to try to do the male or female
principles for a partner. If we are doing this for a partner
or compromising our way of being as a man or a woman then
what we do is neutre our sexual energy. We create 50/50
intellectually negotiated agreements where a parent-child
or master-disciple dynamic occurs. This ultimately fails
to serve the greater whole of humanity because the wounded
child or teenager can be the part of us making our choices.
We
actually block our partner’s spiritual growth even
though it may look like they have the physical freedom
to grow. On more hidden levels the relationship becomes
all about me, me, me while we’re busy sucking the
life force from our partner. We must be able to give our
partner the space to expand their creativity in their
own way even if that means we have the skills ourselves
and know they will occasionally fail. Letting go of the
caregiver role with a partner is one of the greatest gifts
we can give because it is the gift of spiritual freedom.
Along
with the caring for rather than caring about a partner
we must also send our inner judge packing when we see
our partner stumbling with something that we have already
mastered. This is important for woman when in relationship
with man learning to access more of his feelings as well
as for man when in relationship with woman that is establishing
her voice in the world.
Ancestral
Patterning and Belief Systems - The twin
flames may have belief systems that impede the flow of
this relationship. Equality issues top the list particularly
if any wounding has come from the relationship with the
opposite sex.
Then
what occurs is a separation from the male or female principles
very often handing over the responsibility to the opposite
sex to take care of that for them. This is directly related
to whether the heart is operating in the relationship
or not. If the heart and mind are working together then
deflection in relationships ceases to occur.
We
are meant to be more than just helpers to each other.
We are meant to be cocreators as well. Much is held in
the subconscious cell memories within our physical bodies.
If we only operate from an outer identification then we
will just be fulfilling a biological imperative passed
down from our ancestors. Within those cell memories are
the subconscious patterning of parent/child and master/disciple
dynamics in relationships, the limiting roles for both
sexes and other addiction tendencies.
Both
people in relationship must be transmuting these subconscious
shadow energies through fusing their Soul energy with
their physical being. The keys to freeing the prisoners
from the past are always held in the jailors’ belt
of consciousness. Twin flames will closely reflect
for each other this transformation as they acquire these
keys for evolving the relationship beyond the wounded
heart’s programmed cell memory.
The
magic wand that helps dissolve much in this relationship
is the ability to go beyond the ego personality’s
story to realizing that these are also global issues.
Everyone is on a spiritual path. What energies people
align with is their choice.
If
one is committed to fulfilling their own purpose in life
then they are doing the inner work of healing their heart’s
wounding and are committed to the twin flame relationship
within them. This enables the twin flame relationship
to manifest in their outer physical reality.
Twin
Flames have the same issues. If one Twin is bound in some
way the other one will also be bound as well. There is
much in resistence to this form of relationship because
it means being accountable on more than a physical level
of being.
If
the twin flames are sincere in bringing forward their
soul and purpose they will have the attention of legions
of angels and ascended masters to assist them with the
spiritual tools to integrate their Soul energy and bring
forward their purpose. They will be more aware of the
inner dynamics with their twin flame.
This
is where true love and mastery comes into play and new
challenges arise. Enmeshed energy in relationship between
the twin flames and their karmic ties can occur. A false
twin will ride the energy of the twin flames in order
to maintain a position given to them by a partner. It
can be a difficult situation if your twin flame thinks
they have the ultimate soulmate relationship with a false
twin. (More on this in the False Twin Flame segment of
this article).
If
your twin flame is becoming more aware of you psychically
they will also have their false twin tagging along with
them hooking in to you unconsciously to draw the information
necessary to maintain their physical relationship. What
happens then is you have a false twin trying to take over
the energy of a real twin. It takes a lot of strength
and persistence to get a false twin off your life stream.
They live in fear that draws life force from others. They
will dig in to your neuropathways to try to block communication
with a real twin. Maintaining spiritual integrity is important
and establishing the tools for stopping psychic vampirism
are necessary in this situation. (I have more information
coming on this topic in future articles and ebooks.).
Dissolving
Walls in Consciousness - A lot of inner
energy dynamics in relationship are thought of as “airy
fairy”, fantasy or wishful thinking because the
dominating consciousness has been more male based which
is more 3D sensually focused. There are many books written
on how different man is from woman in their brain function,
the way they communicate, etc. They mention how much power
women have over men through their sexuality.
What
is missing in those books is any mention about the importance
of spirituality and the higher self in relationships as
well as the impact of the Ascension process. This is changing
the way our brains are wired hence our perceptions are
also changing.
We
are given many relationship tools, books and communication
techniques to better our relationships personality to
personality. This is a big business arena generating billions
of dollars. What do you do though, when someone is intruding
in your mind or psychically hooking you to draw your life
force? Most people have yet to become awake telepathically.
This can be done unconsciously without the outer personality
being aware of this. We are all in new territory regarding
relationship.
Sexuality
goes way beyond our physical body parts. Woman is not
meant to have power over man or man over woman. This fails
to happen in a relationship that has spiritual integrity
as a base. A true soulmate relationship can only happen
when we are actually mated to our soul. There are many
complements that we can find to suit our personality’s
needs but having someone as a spiritual complement is
rare. This is the twin flame relationship which will elevate
the consciousness about sexuality as well.
This
is why there are many false twin soulmate relationships.
We tend to attract where we are operating from in our
level of integration with who we are spiritually. Our
twin flame may be light years in the lead of where we
are in some areas and we may be light years in the lead
of where they are in other areas.
It
is when we transmute the walls in consciousness between
man and woman that we have our soul’s intention
for relationship manifest. The Goddess energies are at
work on the planet awakening this awareness.
Man
and Woman are meant to walk together as equals in service
to the greater whole on the planet. We must step out of
the box of consciousness as to what the role of man is
and what the role of woman is. Taking the next step, ascending
our consciousness means giving the heart and feelings
and the “mind” an opportunity to grow together
as equals.
We are now in the times, where the forerunners in consciousness,
more balanced in their energies are establishing the sacred
marriage of the male and female principles within them
and are stripping away these dysfunctional layers of consciousness.
For
those people that have met their twin flame spiritually
and/or physically and are here in service as the twin
flame relationship intends, keep your vision alive. Never
give up hope. The ball is rolling so to speak for this
new beginning in our world.
The
seeds were planted long ago. For those that have yet to
meet their twin flame it all starts from the inside out.
Have faith for we are now into the mystery, a place that
is just beginning to break ground. Seeds grow into roots,
roots into stems before we ever experience the harvest
of our labours. The pathways are now clearing as the twin
flames’ vision for this physical reality is manifesting
in the weeks and months to come.
Recently
on different occasions I have found some flicker feathers.
With their beautiful peach-orange hues these beautiful
birds usher in a new rythym of growth and healing power
with love and balance.
The
Twin Flames, souls in resonance, till the garden of consciousness
that is awakening Heaven on Earth.
I am eternally grateful for the experience and the Divine
Source of this information
Twin Flame Experience
I first saw my twin flame
from across a room full of people waiting for a seminar
to begin. He was very magnetic to me. I kept looking over
at him, wondering who he was. It was very much the energy
around him that I was curious about.
I next saw some written
material about him. Although I didn’t recognize
the picture I saw as being the same man I had seen at
the previous gathering (his look was different) the energy
with his flyer was very magnetic to me. He was promoting
some seminars he was doing about transforming fear. Since
I had done a process about eliminating the source of fear
I was intrigued at what he might be presenting.
I attended his seminar
and was flabbergasted. It was as if I was looking at myself
speaking in a male form. He was covering material that
I had learned over the previous 7 years prior to meeting
him physically. People I chatted with that had heard him
speak at other times said to me that I sounded like him,
yet we had never physically met before. My arena for sharing
my message was casually at craft shows where I sold my
art, small workshops and healing sessions I facilitated
from home.
I began to notice when
I was around him at these gatherings that any questions
I had about him he would be answering within moments of
me thinking of them. My first thoughts of him were that
I could really relate to this man and that perhaps there
was hope for the opposite sex yet! Other people that I
have spoken to that have met their twin flame for the
first time physically, have said the same thing.
As I listened to him
speak about the challenges he had in relationships I realized
that those exact same issues I was consciously healing
within myself and my relationships. I began to notice
that whatever patterns I shifted within myself he would
shift at the same time. I was intrigued with finding such
a high level connection with a man. I discovered that
this man was the one I had been dreaming about for many
years and that he had the same vision for relationship
between man and woman that I had.
Over the course of my
life I have had many areas of study, some that have been
triggered and integrated as part of my healing journey,
others that peak my curiosity about the mysteries of life
and some activities that have been just plain fun.
As more of my twin flame
history became revealed, mostly with both of us being
in different physical environments I have learned that
he has matched most areas of study that I have delved
into this lifetime and had very similar experiences at
different times in his relationships. Even something as
simple as playing the game of squash which Iwas introduced
to when I was a teenager, he has also played. Choices
each of us make impact each other’s lives profoundly.
In the 80s when I was
learning about self hypnosis, doing long distance health
readings and the faith healers in the Phillipines my twin
flame was on the other side of the planet discerning for
himself if those healers were authentic or not.
I worked at a public
library for 8 years during which time I had access to
books on every topic imaginable. I looked into the latest
info about early childhood development, the abusive patterns
in relationship associated with addiction while my twin
was across the planet becoming a speaker about those same
things.
I have also had many
mystical experiences. I have learned that some of them
were with him on a spirit level years before I met him.
When I started to focus on what the big picture was for
my life I found a written piece in a magazine that included
one couple’s wedding vows. It spoke about being
a partner to someone on more than just a physical level.
I wrote down the vows
and made a note about my view of what the ultimate relationship
between man and woman was about. To me it was about having
someone aligned with me on all levels of being, someone
that would choose to be with me but did not need to be
with me in order to have a focus for their life. I was
used to having men tag along with my ideas without having
a vision for their own life. I desired the freedom for
expressing my creativity in the biggest arena possible.
I wrote down my intention
for manifestation and put a call out to the universe to
show me how to have this ultimate relationship manifest
in my world. I later learned that this was actually referred
to as a Twin Flame Relationship. This was the same time
that my twin flame made his way across the planet to Canada.
I began to have dreams about him and other dimensional
experiences. I was given his name and began to write about
some of the experiences I had with him. Some of those
have manifested in my physical reality. I even did a painting
called “Awakening Heaven on Earth” that depicted
a symbol associated with him specifically and his life.
In 1990, a significant
year of change for me, I had a very profound experience
with a group of people that had to do with awakening more
of a multi-dimensional awareness of “Soul”
and “I Am Presence”. This is a process that
goes way beyond what language can possibly describe. The
closest I can come is to say that we eliminated a fear
base that operates in a reverse flow way drawing energy
from others to a radiating love base that is able to transmute
fear patterning within our body, mind and emotions.
A short time after my
experience in 1990 my twin flame had his own I would say
more dramatic physical experience of acquiring the same
information. He started illustrating in his workshops
and integrating in his life the exact same thing that
I was doing; transmuting fear patterning to love.
Our expressions and areas
of interest are consistently complimentary. Many times
I have been reading and integrating in my life material
from a book while my twin flame is in touch with the promoter
of the same book. There was one time I recall that I was
listening to cassette tapes about research to do with
the impact of early childhood development on our lives
while he was out doing a workshop with someone that was
presenting their version of the same thing.
His education has been
more formal than mine has. What I have learned is that
as I am following my heart and doing those things on both
inner and outer levels he will follow a lot of what I
am doing in his own way. We are both feeding the relationship
even when in separate physical environments. This relationship
never ceases to amaze me.
When he was talking about
shamanism I was seeing a shaman. As he was writing his
dissertation for his degree my guides were telling me
to stop doing workshops and start writing for my writing
about my experiences would formulate what my teachings
would be in the world.
When I was speaking about
birthing yourself before having a child (as it is a disservice
to a child to try to live through them) he was talking
about all the physical stuff to do with being prepared
to have a child.
When I was belly dancing
he was learning flamenco dancing.
We both started calling
ourselves metapsychologists as we started to integrate
more of our essence with our physical form. When my complement
was learning about quantum field theory I was doing a
healing modality referred to as Quantum Touch which is
based on the same principles of the information he was
sharing with people.
I attended an event once
where he was a speaker and put what he was talking about
to the group of people into practice. I used a technique
I had learned on some drooping flowers and they ceased
drooping. Someone at the event noticed what I had done
and pointed it out to me. This is when I began to notice
more that I just had to be me in the world for in doing
so I impact a lot of people including my twin flame.
As I moved on to transform
more of what I was in resonance with because of my past
family environment my twin flame began to learn more about
resonance as well. I did Holographic repatterning sessions
over a period of years which has to do with shifting what
you are in resonance with.
I would be on a table
receiving a healing session, making a shift in consciousness
and energy and my twin flame would also experience a shift
as a result of me doing the work I was doing. I was aware
that subconsciously he would look in on me and what I
was doing but his outer self did not necessarily have
the awareness. Both of us have worked with resonance therapies
and technologies over the years in different ways.
As Twin Flames we are
“Souls in Resonance”. As such the same issues
are being transformed at the same time. What I have found
is that as I have taken the next step up the ladder of
evolution by physically integrating more of my Soul energy
my “partner of light” becomes more consciously
aware of my Presence at work.
That which is hidden
becomes more exposed and brings up more issues. As we
move forward on the path of Ascension we are integrating
more of our Light Body with our physical body. We are
truly becoming who we are as Divine Creator Beings. Core
transformation is going on at this time as the twin flame
relationship is touching down within us.
Others I have talked
with about their twin flames say it is awkward. It is
like the spirit is calling forward the connection to manifest
(with many Ascended Masters overlighting them I am aware).
The ego personality seems to be saying and doing things
to “notice me” because there is recognition
of a connection but on the other hand when the twin flame
shows up the ego seems to say “I don’t know
about you. You aren’t really what I expected. You
don’t fit the image I have for a partner”.
Ah, that voice of control….
The best thing to
do is to ask that voice of control “and what else
is there?” Embrace with love that part of self that
spoke with a pure heart’s voice in the past and
got whacked for doing so. Take the hands of the child
and the teenager selves. Walk them into this new territory
as the twin flame relationship touches down safety, security
and trust.
Who is going to rule
your life, the voices of your past fears or your Divine
Loving Presence? These are a couple of good statements
to affirm and feel:
“I
Am the Mighty Electronic Energy flowing through, filling
and renewing every cell of my mind, and body, right now.”
“My
breath is the great Love Breath from out of the Great
Central Sun. My heart is the heart of Omnipresence, the
very center of Divine Love, and Its Light fills me now!”
As always I am eternally
grateful for all the love, awareness and growth I have
experienced that has come as a result of my twin flame
relationship. I also send forth my love, praise, and gratitude
to those that overlight this relationship and our mission
to humanity.
Blesssings,
Linda Sajiw
©Linda Sajiw,
October 7, 2009
